Marissa has stayed in the game because she enjoys the flexibility of her dancing lifestyle and the fact that it allows her to focus on her true passion, writing. Her Diablo Cody-esque blog provides a glimpse inside her life and experience in the industry, which isn't all glamour and glitz.
That said, she's well aware of society's age pressures. I'm 31 and hope to be in a normal career and married within the next one and a half to two years," Marissa said. Another professional stripper, Perelandra , put it bluntly on her website : "It has to do with how well you have taken care of yourself over the years and if plastic surgery is an option for you.
The reality of the business' beauty standards came to the fore when year-old Kim Ouwroulis and year-old Barbara Sanderson filed lawsuits in against their strip club employer in Canada after allegedly being fired for being too old. Despite what club owners like Hirsch and Campbell may say, the majority of strippers still appear to be younger, with various reports citing an average age of But there are older women who make it work: The irony is that the elusive definition of "sex appeal," which makes stripper age discrimination cases hard to litigate , can sometimes benefit the women who actively want to stay in the industry.
Women who maintain their youthfulness and stamina — essentially stay "sexy" enough to keep doing the job — can find themselves with careers. Gina DePalma has turned adult entertainment industry into a long-term profession, having started her career as an ecdysiast at the age of 13 in Texas with the help of a fake ID. Now in her late 40s, retired from dancing and living in New York City, DePalma continues to makes her living off her sensual skill set.
She can always fall back on the fact that she's a licensed esthetician, but she's perfectly happy working in the adult industry. I should have thought that it is mainly older men - well, past 40 or so - that are likely to get some value out of strip clubs.
Guys in their 20s or 30s should be dating or married to stripper-aged women, or at least trying to. Paying to look at them gyrating on a stage is for losers. Mind you, I say this as someone who never cared much for strippers, either as a young man or as an older one.
I have been to strip clubs a handful of times over the decades, but never really found the experience more than very mildly erotic. And OP, is your argument supposed to apply to porn too, because the same age issues are also involved there, surely?
Is it really reasonable to say that it is cool for men under 40 to use porn, but not men who are a older? Sounds pretty ageist. There is a degree of separation with porn that makes it oceans apart from going to a strip club.
This is exactly what i was going to say. As long as you can work what you have and make a man happy, you will be fine. I have also known girls in their 40's who could throw down like nobody. Even if you were 19 years old with a 20" waist and a 40" bust, some guys wouldn't want dances from you because it's impossible to be attractive to every single customer.
Attraction is the most subjective subject that exists. But the common thread through what most people find attractive is confidence. If you have that, whatever else you have is probably workin' too. If you are sure of yourself and like what you got Work what you have Luv yourself girl: I'm sure you are awesome. PhnixxRed Id say go for it! You're still a young spring chicken! You're only as old as you feel and one of my favorite dancers from the club I worked at was I've called her a liar numerous times out of fun, not to be mean but she is indeed leaning toward middle-aged.
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