Virgo Ascendant - 8 years. Virgo Men - 2 years. Virgo Moon - 2 years. Virgo Women - 6 years. Whatever they say about us Why so much hate on Virgos? Virgos and your emos i was really taken aback by this virgo gal at work her bother was murdered a couple weeks ago another coworker her hu.
I asked him if he wants me to move on he had feelings idk where they went but its been about a month n i just asked him if he wants me to move on n he sa. Whats my sun and moon? Spent his whole life in the United States, his mother brought him when she was 13, and yes she was 13 when she had him. And never sorted out his paperwork.
Needless to say, this is a point that is reflected off a lot when it comes to his self esteem.. When I met him, he was not at his best. In fact, he was in a bad place in his life. He moved in with me pretty quickly, and then he started to have health issues such as mental and emotional. He takes medication for it now, and over time — when he had moved in with me — I helped him through all his medical, because I was really falling in love with this guy.
Well, even with my patience and understanding, he was doing little things to take advantage of me I felt. It got to the point where he was doing better — could go back to working — but never did. He would sleep in alot, and then there was a point where i caught him watching porn, and that really affected me… I felt like I was taking care of someone who completely was not in his good intentions. We werent married yet.. I was also dealing with a mental strain during this time, because when he moved in — it increased my rent.
And I was having a hard time keeping my car payments up. A lot was going on — and the fact he was indulging in porn in our home, and not doing anything to support — even JUST himself… I felt betrayed in a lot of ways. We still went on, and I had to try to forget these circumstances because I wanted to think he really did love me.
You guys have no idea how badly I wanted this to work, and how badly i wanted to have a family of my own. I already had two children with two different dads, and honestly i really had felt like I rushed this marriage.. I was the one who wanted to get married, i was desparate to keep him because I believed his words and just believed in him so much….
I need advice… becuase Im sitting here in my hospital room, about to have a baby — we got into an argument and I told him to leave back to his home in a different state. And I needed him to bet here to support me — and simply he wasnt doing that. When i left, and came back he was gone..
He pretty much has been gone for 5 days now… and I am sitting here in the hospital room, have nobody by myside… no family… its just me…. What do I do…. I had always tried to help my husband, and yes — I am at fault for getting upset with him when he didnt follow through with obligations — espeically with his citizenship. I will say — I did make a fault in all of this… when I got pregnant — i mentioned abortion..
I would of honestly never gone through with it — I mean look at what ive been dealing with — two children with two different situations.
I was in a situation with my first childs dad where i was being exploited, and my second childs father was very very abusive and a closet addict…. I feel like at the end of the day I really set myself up, and Im failing my children..
I am losing my mind… I keep realizing the reality of all of this and its pulling me left and right.. Thank you for sharing your story. Now that's what I call a nice selection of men.
Virgo men are naturally calm, considerate and make the ideal life partners. Sadly nothing in life is perfect. We all come with our own set of flaws and Virgo men are not exempt from this rule. They seek perfection, take a long time to complete the most basic of tasks, are quite challenging when it comes to running a household, and have a tendency to be critical about almost anything.
After spending a lot of time with your Virgo man, you will also realize that he tends to notice just about everything. Dreaming big is in a true Virgo's blood. The very thought of failure sends them into a panic, as their brains work overtime trying to think of all the projects they have lined up that will be the next big thing.
You might find it difficult being in a relationship with such a workaholic but it's not that he doesn't care about you -- he is just very driven. Toronto-based couple's expert Karen Hirscheimer told Canadian Living magazine how to deal with a partner who will always put work first. She revealed, "You need to remember you chose someone whose work may take more time than other people's.
Work with your own situation because comparisons are aggravating. A good suggestion is taking a long walk together and discussing how at least once a week you would like some time put aside just for you two. Scheimer also cautions against nagging saying, "This is never a good idea. If you're constantly angry, then that climate is less likely to encourage your partner to want to spend time with you.
Having too much pride can take over our lives and the Virgo man knows this more than anyone else. We all naturally have some form of pride, where if someone hurts us or wrongs us, we know we should walk away. For Virgos, however, they get hurt over even the littlest things. They can shut someone down in a second, no matter how close they are to them, if they feel they are being disrespected in anyway.
Often this can lead to a lot of hurt when they won't speak to you for days and you're unsure of exactly what you did wrong. It could have been a passing comment about some work they had done or about an item of clothing they wore, and they have taken it the wrong way.
Communication with your Virgo man is key - explain they have no reason to be hurt and they mistook what you said. They will build emotional walls higher than the average man, but with patience and trust, these can be broken down. It's hard to live with someone messy and not go insane. A true Virgo man has so much buzzing around his mind, alongside being constantly on the go, that he doesn't have much time left for cleaning up.
Although he has no problem with this, you probably will as you find your time wasted on cleaning tasks you never wanted to do. Tina Tessina, a marriage and family therapist practicing from Long Beach, California, told Today online, "The key is not to insult, hurt or demean your partner by what you say, but to communicate pleasantly.
For instance, tell your partner that you're not comfortable with the division of labor and ask if you can talk about it and work out a different system. This way, you're not accusing your life partner of being inconsiderate or lazy. You're just working out the logistics of a problem. As the Virgo man will have his emotional walls up high, they can come across as cold and distant at times. This can often leave their partners feeling left out and can cause them to lash out or become upset.
Often, men respond to emotional intensity in a relationship by walking away and becoming even more distant, which in turn escalates the issue. Because Virgos are naturally headstrong, they really do think they know what's best for everyone. Decide exactly what kind of relationship you want with your guy and then make them understand this.
Stress that you want a partner, but not someone who is also going to act as your mentor, life coach, personal trainer, spiritual leader and social guru. Believe us, it will feel at times that they are taking on each one of these roles.
This kind of behavior can feel overbearing. Try to recognize if you are doing anything to empower their interference -- maybe by allowing their involvement -- and be very forward that you want it to stop.
Psychologist Philip "Dr.
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