Make sure the answer to this is somewhat related to your interests and hobbies. You want to get yourself in those environments. Once you start meeting guys try not to focus all of your energy on one. Instead, try to date at least three guys at the same time. Doing this will help you stay level-headed and not become too attached to one guy too soon. I know this strategy may sound a bit controversial to some but it really does work.
Try not to bring baggage from previous relationships into your dating experience. You need to be willing to be vulnerable with someone to really bond and create the relationship you desire. Men desire a positive and kind woman who is ready to trust them and accept their love. Have fun, flirt and be feminine. It only takes 1 right guy, and if you stumble across him and make a few mistakes, you are going to miss out. I want you to take my advice, which is really more common sense advice then part of my matchmaking secrets.
You approach your dates like a business deal — instead of a possibility for LOVE. Oh, and by the way, he needs to be no older than you and preferably younger. I received this email almost verbatim. Toss your list, ladies. Guys are guilty of this too. You know people that meet and fall in love online. Don't take his excuses if he says something like, "We were having problems but now I want to fix them. Part 3. Respect him and everyone else.
When you're trying to woo Mr. Right, you want to show him that you're Ms. One of the best ways to do this is to show that you are a good person. Show him respect but also, importantly, show respect to others as well. We can tell a lot about a person by how they treat others and if you're kind to the people you don't have to be kind to, that's a good sign.
Respect yourself. Right wants someone who thinks they're worth loving and respecting, so show him you think you're worthwhile by respecting yourself. Don't speak poorly of yourself, speak up for yourself in interpersonal situations, wear clothing that isn't demeaning too big, too small, to revealing, etc , and practice good hygiene, a healthy diet, and reasonable exercise regimen.
Be yourself. Right isn't really Mr. Right if he doesn't fall for who you are as a person. No matter what, being yourself is the most important thing. If a guy doesn't like you the way you are, he isn't worth the time of day. Let your true passions show through, celebrate your positives and embrace your faults as a person. You should never try to be someone that you're not, since this in unhealthy for you and your relationships. Pursue your passions.
A passionate, enthusiastic person is very attractive to just about everyone so engage yourself in pursuing your passions. Do the things that you want to do and get out there to try new things you've always wanted to pick up. Right will think that this passion is sexy. Communicate clearly and often. Guys find clear communication to be one of the most important skills in a relationship, so show him that you're the safe bet by communicating clearly and often.
This is also important because it lets you solve problems in your relationship before they become too big to fix, making your relationship more stable and enjoyable for both of you. Stop playing games. You know the game: you tease him, make him think you're interested, and then act cold or oblivious right after.
You carefully meter out when you call him and how much time he can spend with you to make him want more.
This is very manipulative behavior and it won't get you the kind of guy you're looking for. Be honest with him and let him know you care. He'll do the same if he's really a good guy. Take initiative. Don't be afraid to take initiative in finding Mr. Right and dating Mr. Ask him out. Choose where you go on dates every now and again. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel.
He'll be able to see that you think your relationship is more important than how shy you feel. Part 4. Get help in helping him love you. Once you fall for him, you're going to want to be sure he loves you just as much, right? It's not as hard as it seems. Learn how to attract a good man.
Sometimes it feels like you attract the jerks like flies, while the good guys don't seem to pay any attention. This might be related to how you act! Make some changes and you'll attract the right guys before you know it. Get Mr. Right to notice you. Wear clothes that flatter your figure. Do not try to be a size 6 if you are really a size Some men like a woman with a little meat on her bones, but no one wants a slob.
Big can be beautiful if you manage things correctly. If you are overweight, consult your doctor and find out what is healthy for a woman your size. Rather than living up to some super-model or stereotype of femininity you should aim to be all you can. Work with what you have: get a makeover; ask a personal shopper at the department store to help you revamp your look. Small changes can make a world of difference in your looks as well as your outlook.
Know what you are looking for in a man. Here are some qualities to look for in a healthy relationship: common values and similar culture, ability to forgive and be forgiven, ability to be challenged and confronted without defensiveness, desire to raise children, common goals. Ask yourself, Why do I want this relationship?
To lose myself? To find myself? To boost my sagging self-esteem? To be a temporary fix until I decide I want something better? For security or someone to take care of me? To be in control? To show off to my friends that I can get a man? To get my parents off my back? To run away from my responsibilities?
To find someone to support my children? Ask yourself where you want to be in twenty-five years. What type of person do you want to become? How will your choices now influence that outcome? Try to think beyond your nose for a few minutes. Look down the road. Be honest. What does your heart desire? Just a paycheck, children, a companion? What you choose today will have an impact on what you get later. Choose wisely. What looks good now may cause heartache later.
What you do now does matter. Rise above past mistakes. You are not doomed to an endless series of losers. You are half-way to Mr. RIGHT by seeing what you have done wrong in the past. You cannot correct something you did not realize was stupid. You are starting to develop humility, which is a good trait. We all fail and make mistakes. We all have things we remember with regret.
Unlike us, God is very forgiving when we repent, turn around and are willing to let Him change us.
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